Male Chastity Training For Beginners
If you are
looking for something fun to get your partner involved in, then you should be
thinking of the male chastity fetish. This is one of the best possible ways of
gaining control over your partner and ensuring that you are being pleased every
single time the two of you are together in the bedroom. You can take complete
control over the key to his freedom and only let him out when you have been
sufficiently pleased by him. Of course, that probably isn't going to happen the
very first night, but that is all part of the fun.
Training
your partner to wear a chastity device and be willing to do whatever it takes
to make you happy is all part of this type of fetish. You can find numerous
articles online about how both men and women have trained their male partners
to reach new heights of sexual exploration simply by refusing to unlock their
little cage and let them out. It may see a bit torturous to your partner at
first, but they will soon see the excitement that can be involved in something
like this and they will do their best to be let free.
But you
shouldn’t make it too easy for them to get out of their male chastity cage. If
you make it too easy, then they are going to expect to get out of it every time
they have sex with you. Instead, you need to play it all off as if it was good
but not quite good enough to be set free for. It doesn’t matter if you had your
socks knocked off in the first fifteen seconds of them trying to please you,
deny that you reached the appropriate level of orgasm and make them try again
until they get it right.
You are the
one that has all the control when they are wearing their chastity device and
you need to remind them of that every chance you get. Don’t let them get away
with pleasing you easily and you will see just how far they will go to make
sure you are pleased. You may find that you don’t want to have sex with them
unless they are wearing their device and they will see that pleasing you is
much more important than premature ejaculation and a quick peck on the cheek.
Of course,
if you have a partner that tends to get into trouble with other people a lot,
wearing a male chastity device will cure them of that. First off, they won't be
able to have sex with anyone else, but more importantly they aren't going to
want to expose the fact that they are wearing a device like this if they can
help it. Most people out there are going to think they are a tad bit crazy for
wearing a cage over their cocks, unless they have been involved in the chastity
lifestyle in the past, and that means they will tend to leave your partner
alone.
Now, if you
are planning on springing this fetish on your partner when they least expect
it, you are going to have to figure out what size of a device to purchase for
them. This is much easier if you have them there with you when you are ordering
it, but it’s not really necessary. There are designs available that will fit
just about any size cock you could imagine and that will be a good place to
start until you are able to get them more interested in what is happening with
the whole situation.
If you are
going to have them involved in it then you will want to sit them down with you
at the computer when you start looking for male chastity devices. If both of
you have decided this is something you would like to enjoy together, then
getting their input as to which device they would like to wear is very
important. You are the one that is training them, but they are the ones that
have to wear the device for long periods of time. You want them to be as
comfortable as they can possibly be or neither of you will enjoy this
lifestyle.
Once the two
of you have figured out which device you are going to purchase, you should read
up on all the information you can find in regards to training. If you or your
partner has done anything like this in the past, then you probably won't have
to do as much research, but make sure that you are both reading the
information. This way you will both know what to expect and what is supposed to
happen during your time together. Of course, you should feel free to explore
this fascinating fetish on your own to find different things that will work
specifically for you.
One thing
that you will notice in the beginning is that your partner will beg and plead
to have his male chastity taken off. The longer he wears it, though, the less
he will beg to have it removed. While it can be fun to completely forget about
the fact that he is wearing something like this over his cock, it’s usually a
good idea to let him out of it for brief moments in order to deep clean it and
let him relax. Just don’t do if very often or for very long periods of time.
This
lifestyle is all about control and, since you are the one with the key to his
freedom, you have the control. You should wield that control over him and let
him know that only you can let him out of that device. If you do it right, then
he will do everything you tell him to do without question. If you don’t do it
right, then he will probably figure out a way of breaking the lock and getting
out of it on his own.
If you are
going to have your partner wearing his male chastity device for months on end,
then you will need to understand that he has to have some kind of release or he
could face a prostate infection. Most of the time this isn't going to happen,
but if you are playing around a lot and he isn't able to ejaculate properly,
then it will build up seminal fluid in his prostate and there could be issues
arising from it. One thing that you will have to do is initiate the massaging
of his prostate in order to get him to clear the built up seminal fluid.
Now,
depending on what your partner is into, massaging the prostate might not be
something he would be interested in. If that is the case, then you can take his
cage off and make him masturbate for you before putting it back on again. Do
this once a week or so and he should stay as healthy as a bull. If he is
interested in male anal play, then the prostate massage can be done with the
device locked in place and he will ejaculate without the need for an erection.
You will
find that doing the male chastity prostate massage successfully will be the
most intense orgasm he has ever experienced. After his first experience with
something like this, you probably won't have to promise to take his cage off
ever again to get him to do what you want. Just tell him that if he does
whatever you ask him to and pleases you with his actions, then you will massage
him again and see how quickly he jumps to the tasks you have asked of him. It
is quite amazing what a guy will do to experience that kind of orgasm over and
over again.
If you feel
that you and your partner are starting to get tired of the same old device,
then you can always sit down together again and pick out a new style or design.
You shouldn’t feel like the two of you are stuck with this one device, and
changing things up from time to time can really be helpful in spicing up this
fetish. You might want to consider putting the lock inside a safe that has its
own time lock on it as well. This way your partner can do everything in the
world to please you so that when the time lock clicks he has a chance to get
out of his device for a few days.
If he hasn’t
pleased you when the time lock opens, then you can keep him in the male
chastity device and reset the lock. That is a bit harsher and should only be
done with guys that are used to wearing their devices for longer periods of
time, though. If you are new to this, then there is a good chance that your
partner is not going to be able to wait that long and you will either have to
break the lock or the safe to get the key out. Since neither of those options
are what you want to do, just leave the key in a separate place or hide it from
him while he’s not home. Most importantly, you should always remember to have
fun with a fetish like this. Don’t take it overly serious and the tow of you
will definitely learn some valuable lessons together.
Clear metal chastity cage being used with Ass Spark cock ring combo anal plug. Perfect way to lock up both sides.
